Episode 18

Strength in Gratitude

with James Malinchak

We’re joined by speaker, entrepreneur, and author James Malinchak, who shares his personal journey of grief, resilience, and gratitude following his sister Vicki’s cancer diagnosis. James recounts his upbringing in a small steel mill town, his path as a basketball player, and his transition into a successful business career. However, his life took an unexpected turn when he received a devastating call—his sister Vicki had a brain tumor and only a few months to live.

James opens up about the shock, grief, and anger he experienced, as well as the profound lessons he learned. He describes the pivotal moment when he found solace through a message that reminded him that “tough times never last, but tough people do.” This shift in perspective helped him move from pain to purpose, focusing on gratitude for the time he had with Vicki rather than the loss.

Throughout the conversation, James offers heartfelt insights on cherishing every moment, surrounding yourself with positive influences, and finding strength in adversity. His story is a testament to resilience, the power of perspective, and the impact of choosing gratitude even in the most difficult times.

James and Darcie co-authored Hope in the Face of Cancer: A Collection of Powerful and Uplifting Stories from Cancer Survivors, Caregivers, and Healthcare Professionals.

Mentioned Resources:

CanCare- www.cancare.org

About the Guest:

James Malinchak- Best known for his heartfelt appearance on ABC’s Secret Millionaire, James has dedicated his life to uplifting others through his inspiring words and actionable wisdom. He has shared over 2,000 messages of hope and motivation with businesses, schools, and communities worldwide.  James was a caregiver to his older sister, who was diagnosed with brain cancer at just 38 years old.

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Don’t Look Past the Headlights: Taking cancer one step at a time

with Dr. Bonnie Hubert
What do you do when cancer treatment ends but the fear, uncertainty, and questions remain? Licensed therapist Dr. Bonnie Hubert from the Memorial Hermann Canopy Cancer Survivorship Center joins host Darcie Wells to explore why emotional support is essential for cancer patients, survivors, and caregivers. She shares how counseling, peer mentors, and creative outlets can ease fear of recurrence, reduce isolation, and bring strength after treatment. Bonnie’s calling began when she cared for her mother during ovarian cancer treatment and noticed a gap between medical plans and emotional care. Later, as a BRCA2 previvor, she chose preventive surgeries to lower her own risk. These experiences give her a unique perspective that blends compassion with professional insight. In this episode, she explains how to manage uncertainty with her “don’t look past the headlights” approach, focusing on what can be handled today rather than being overwhelmed by the future. She also highlights the healing power of hopeful stories and the free programs at Canopy and CanCare that provide comfort and community. Bonnie’s message is clear: no one has to face cancer alone. With support, resilience grows, and hope remains. Highlights: [00:00] Welcome & Guest Intro – Meet Dr. Bonnie Hubert, therapist at Memorial Hermann Canopy Cancer Survivorship Center. [02:09] From Counselor to Caregiver – How her mother’s ovarian cancer shifted Bonnie’s career focus. [04:09] The Hidden Gap in Cancer Care – Why ringing the bell doesn’t mean the journey is over. [07:14] Becoming a BRCA2 Previvor – Bonnie’s personal decision for preventive surgeries and how it shaped her outlook. [11:56] What Canopy Provides – Free counseling, groups, and community for survivors and caregivers. [13:49] Emotional Support in Action – Common struggles and why counseling brings relief. [19:05] It’s Just a Conversation – Removing stigma around counseling and therapy. [20:22] Power of Peer Mentors – How CanCare volunteers and survivor mentors offer unique hope. [26:28] Don’t Look Past the Headlights – A practical tool for managing uncertainty day by day. [30:14] Post-Traumatic Growth – How reframing the past with compassion creates space for growth. [33:14] Closing Message of Hope – Bonnie’s reminder that resilience grows when you tap into the right support. Mentioned Resources: CanCare- www.cancare.org www.cancare.org/hopebook About the Guest: Dr. Bonnie Hubert is a licensed therapist with the Canopy Cancer Survivorship Center at Memorial Hermann, where she supports cancer patients and their loved ones. Inspired by her mother’s cancer journey and her own experience as a “previvor,” Bonnie brings both professional expertise and personal understanding to her work. At Canopy, she provides counseling and leads support groups, helping people navigate fear, isolation, and life after treatment with compassion and care.